Share Your Dating Story
Whatever you’ve been through, from butterflies to breakups - we want to hear it!
At The Absolute Dater, we believe real stories matter. Whether you found love in the most unexpected place, had a hilarious dating fail, or navigated a sugar relationship with style, your experience could inspire, entertain, or help someone else feel a little less alone.
We’re building a library of raw, real, and relatable love stories from people just like you.
Why Share?
Help others feel seen: Your story might be exactly what someone else needs to hear — to feel less alone, to laugh, to learn, or to heal.
Stay totally anonymous (if you want to): Use your first name, initials, or a pen name. Share what you’re comfortable with and we’ll respect your boundaries.
Get insights from dating experts: If you’re looking for clarity, not just closure, we can connect your story with one of our expert contributors for thoughtful advice or a Q&A feature.
Get featured and celebrated: With your permission, your story might be published in our articles, social posts, or upcoming podcast episodes. Your experience could make a real impact.
No judgment, ever: This is a safe space. Whether it’s a love story, hookup fail, sugar dating drama, or something you haven’t even told your friends, all stories are welcome here.
What We’re Looking For
- Dating wins and fails
- Love stories (the real, the messy, the magical)
- Stories of growth, heartbreak, and everything in between
- Hookups gone right (or oh-so-wrong)
- Unique experiences: online dating, long-distance, sugar dating, dating as a single parent, etc.
Ready to Share?
Use the form below to submit your story, whether just a few sentences or a full-blown saga. You can write it in your own words, or simply give us the highlights and we’ll help shape it into something powerful and polished (with your approval, of course).
You bring the story, we bring the spotlight.
Here’s what’s in it for you:
- Get Featured: With your permission, your story could be shared in one of our expert-led articles, video episodes, or social features.
- Expert Advice: If you’re looking for answers, not just a place to vent, we may pass your story on to one of our dating experts for tailored feedback or an on-site Q&A response.
- Connection: Real stories help real people. Your experience might help someone feel seen, supported, or simply entertained.
This is where real stories turn into something bigger, something that could spark a conversation, start a movement, or change someone’s day.