How to Make a Girl Horny (Ultimate Guide)

Of late a lot of guys have been messaging me asking, ‘I want to get laid, but my girl is not horny, what should I do?’ or ‘She is always low on sex drive, what should I do?’

So here, I am John Santana to uncover the secret of the most asked question in the hush-hush world – ‘How to make a girl horny?’ Well, to begin with, let me just tell you one statement very clearly – It’s an art which you would master over time.

By the time you arrive at the end, you will have become a pro at getting a girl to glide those fingers into her vagina and wet them for you.

Making a girl horny is a super sexy feeling. The slow awakening of lust on her face, with the lower lip, clenched between the lips, how that erection becomes inevitable, doesn’t it? The taste of her wet vagina with rock-hard nipples is truly irresistible. After all, it’s the most desired fantasy of any man on this Goddamn planet.

If you have been panic-stricken due to lack of training on this, calm down. What am I here for?

Getting to make a girl horny is no bread and butter. If you push the right buttons, you are all set to make her wet. I have often taught men to do this and I am going to be repeating this trick for the hundredth time now. So, everything here is from my personal experience and has proved immense success to date.

In case you are afraid that you look bad shit ugly, or maybe not fancy enough to make her hands go down for you, let’s break this myth together, shall we?

There are 7 incredibly easy steps to make a girl horny. No matter who she is. If you get this right, she is yours to keep. These steps are going to be absolutely straightforward, sexy and entertaining. Don’t forget to listen to me carefully, as I begin to unfold the sexiest ways to do this. But promise me, you’ll keep it a secret? If you want to be the best, make sure you BE the best!

Here’s my part of the story to gear you up!

I thought I was bad shit ugly before I started this. My ex would often taunt me for I couldn’t make her cum as hard as her ex did. That was definitely a prick in the ego.

If you think that was where my journey to this began, you are absolutely right! I am 33 now and I have fucked 70 plus women over the years. Shocked, are you? Well, don’t be, because the tricks that I have applied to make them horny, weren’t sent to me from heaven. I made it happen.

One of my very cool aunts had taught me this trick, and the first time it worked, I knew I was going to try it on hundreds of other women.

I made sure, that I follow a step-by-step guide to make her horny so that every time she wants sex, she returns to me. Initially, it might appear a bit difficult, but as you keep going on with it, it will keep getting easier and faster for you to understand.

The different steps that I am going to be taking you through, are the most intelligent methods of turning a girl on, no other journal, newspaper, magazine or blog will ever tell you. This is my secret recipe for how to make her horny. Watch out for this one!

How to Get a Girl Horny

Having said all of that above, let’s get straight into this. Get your pen, paper and everything else, to note this down, because you just can’t afford to forget these steps. They are priceless!

Before you rush into these steps, make sure you read them carefully, understand how it has to be done and train yourself plenty to become a pro. It’s going to be worth the wait!

Stage 1. Start easy with a few compliments

You can’t make a girl horny until you get her to give you the attention you need. Starting easy with compliments will not only be the most convenient way to grab their attention but will also make them feel more confident about themselves. And girls love that!

“You look so beautiful, I am sorry I can’t take my eyes off you” can be one of the many interesting compliments she won’t ignore. Make sure you are as decent as you can get. If they don’t respond as expected, don’t give up instantly or walk off.

Stage 2. Ace the art of cheesy words and strong ‘pick up’ lines

How many times have people told you, this is a turn-off for most women? They are stupid. Don’t believe them. Women love cheesy lines that make them feel wanted, craved for and important. They just can’t keep their eyes off you, if you try this trick on them.

Of course, you have to be very careful while using cheesy words and ‘pick up’ lines. You need to be great at shooting, sexy ‘pick up’ lines that don’t bore them or overdo the flirting in their eyes. That can backfire, you see?

Since we’ve already covered the first step, it’s now time to get a little deeper into it. When the compliment works, it’s time for flirting. Something like, “I have been here for so long, but I just can’t take my eyes off you, from the moment I have seen you” can be great for starters.  After this is said and done, use some really classy and cheesy lines that help you to confess what you are looking for, from them. You can even try funny lines for her. Women love humor, in case you didn’t know.

They won’t slap you at that, don’t worry. I told you, women love all things loving, wanting and innocent. They’d rather give you more attention than others and agree on your terms without much effort.

A few great lines to start the game:

  • In this world, there are things that money can’t buy. You seem to be one of those things.
  • I was feeling a bit OFF the whole day. But then, you showed up and turned me ON.
  • I’m horribly lost. Can you give me the directions to your heart?
  • You must be exhausted running in my mind all day long.
  • I guarantee you—I’m not flirting with you! I’m just being extra nice to someone who’s extra attractive.

Stage 3.  Make use of the touch

The third step is finally the one that you’ve been waiting for all this while. THE TOUCH.

Don’t you dare jump off to the third step outright without completing the first and the second step. It can disrupt the whole plan and make it dicey for you to make her horny.

While you are having a conversation, try touching them slightly so as to make a point. “If you were me, what would you have done?” or “That’s what I am trying to say….” Are a few ways you can touch them in order to explain your point.

Make sure it doesn’t seem like you are being too touchy. This will not only help you to touch them without seeming pervert but will also help you to give them a reason to touch you back.

Stage 4. Give signals with your touch

The other exciting way of physical touch has to be the ’10-second Seductive Handshake.’ This has proved wonders for many people and you are next.

Try to start a conversation lightly. When you introduce yourself to them, try to shake hands with them by taking their hands in yours gently. Remember not to do this too excitedly. While you do this, look into her eyes and continue to converse with her.

Usually, it is difficult for a girl to make normal conversations with someone by holding hands. It distracts her. Let the gentle touch of your hand make her horny.

In case she is willing to remove her hand, don’t force her. Allow her to do it and continue to flirt with her lightly. One of the easiest ways to touch a girl is also by touching her skin slightly as an excuse for complimenting her accessories. I have done this many times and it has never failed for me. In fact, girls definitely respond to this, with a naughty smile, indicating that she is getting ready for you.

Try complimenting their jewelry by placing your hand on it, so as to touch the jewellery. This will also help you to touch them as your actions begin to feel friendly rather than a pervert.

Once you get these steps correctly, you won’t be far from getting what you’ve been wanting from them, all this while.

Stage 5. Ask her for a dance

Be the gentleman that you are and ask the lady for a dance. This way you can break the ice and take this to the next level of comfort. Get closer while you dance. Pass a compliment or two in the ears. Put your hands on the waist while you are grooving to the music. Feel the connection and slowly move your hands on her back.

This way, you will come halfway with the plan while she will keep falling for your flirting.

Stage 6. Physical Touch 2.0

As long as the green signal is continuously reciprocated, get closer while complimenting and kiss the ears.

Hug her in a caring and protective manner while dancing. Make the moves but give some space for the lady to try and initiate at some point so that both can be on the same page.

Once she’s comfortable and cozy with you, kiss her on her cheeks and forehead as a token for having a good time together. This step will help you know if she’s really interested and if you can take this onto the next chapter.

Wait for her to make the next move and kiss her on the lips to take this further.

Stage 7. Get her to bed with you

When she has reciprocated the interest, you know what you both want to do. By this time, she will have become horny so you can move on at your comfort.

Show some love. Make her feel loved. Give her what she wants and get what you want. In bed, it’s an easy format. If you want to get a girl horny, you’ve got to pleasure her first.

Kiss her everywhere. Run your fingers through her body. Bite her neck. Go down on her vagina. Just make her wet.

These seven stages of making a girl horny are magic if you want your girl to be almost screaming ‘SEX’. You need only the right aim to target. Make sure you don’t overdo anything, as this can backfire immediately. Don’t be hesitant about sharing how you feel about them. This will make them more comfortable with you.

Tips to accomplish the goal

Finally, you have unraveled my secret ingredients of getting a girl horny for you. But now that the stages have been unfolded, there are a few tips you must keep in mind so as to leave no room for errors.

Only knowing the steps will not help you. I told you, it needs more effort than you think it doesn’t, didn’t I? These tips given below will enable you to do the right things to your girl in the right way, which will make her come back to you every time she needs it again.

1. Don’t force her

Forcing is a devil’s thing. If you force her, you are not only seeming desperate in her eyes, but you are also making her feel suffocated. She is only a stranger. You want to make her horny. She didn’t ask you to get there and turn her on. Make sure you don’t force her in any manner which can later turn out to hit back on you.

Allow her to take some time and think about it. Not all girls are the same. Some will want it immediately while others would like to take some time to respond to the offer.

In case she tells you that she doesn’t like the way you touch her, stop it. Be a gentleman and apologize. Decent men are a huge turn on for most women.

If you compel her to get horny or give you the attention you need, she might just slap you and walk off.

2. Be patient

Remember, ‘Rome was not built in a day.’ Of course, your story has to be built in a day, but still, you need to learn the principle of patience. These 7 stages might sound like nothing, but they have to be taken care of very intricately.

Don’t lose your calm. Don’t give up immediately. Big things take time and believe me when it happens, it’s going to be worth the wait. Make sure that the rush inside your heart, doesn’t show up on your face. Be as patient as you can. Let her take time.

3. Respect overall

Although you only want a one-night stand or a hook-up with her, respect plays a key role in every relationship you make. Not forcing her, giving her plenty of space, understanding her level of comfort and treating her the right way are some of the most important signs of respect.

Even if you both have had sex and the stages have been accomplished, don’t forget to remind yourself of how important it is to respect them. If you respect her and treat her gently, chances are, that she will consider you once again. You never know!

4. Offer her a drink

Offering a drink is not only a way to express the man that you are but also helps girls to understand that you want to extend the conversation with them. The girls love it!

After you have completed the first few stages of making her horny, try and ask her for a drink. We all love being pampered a little so she won’t deny having one for sure. If she agrees to accept the offer, you can assume she is interested in you. If she doesn’t, don’t force her. Continue to be polite but flirty.

5. Go slow

The slower you go, the quicker you have chances of attracting her into this. Give each stage plenty of time to settle her down for you. Enjoy the pleasure of taking it slow. Don’t hurry. It can spoil the broth too fast.

6. Talk dirty to her

Girls love dirty talk once they get comfortable. Dirty talk has the potential to get people horny immediately. When you use dirty language to talk to her, she will be driven into this within no time. If the interest is reciprocated, you will be signaled. Pay close attention to how she responds. If she tries to respond excitedly or impressively, you know she is giving you space to make way for yourself. But if she doesn’t respond comfortably, or tells you she doesn’t like it, stop it instantly.

7. Don’t try to impress by playing pretend

Girls hate men playing pretend on them. No one likes to be bugged with how many cars you have or how many watches you own. It doesn’t matter.

Just be natural. The more real you are, the better it gets to be comfortable with you. Make sure you don’t try such tactics on the girl you want to be with. You don’t want to be her ATM. You want to get into her panties. So play the right tricks.

8. Use your humor

Women love laughing. Who doesn’t? Why wouldn’t you pick someone who makes you laugh and smile and be happy? Being humorous can earn you brownie points with the help of which you can attract them faster to get horny for you.

Make sure you don’t insult them or mock them in any way only to be humorous in their eyes. You’d be doing it the wrong way then. Also, please remember not to crack lame jokes and laugh on them for no reason. It is a big turn off for everyone.

9. Show her you want her

Nothing is sexier than a guy craving to want a girl. If you show her, that she is the only one in the room for you, she would not want to let you go.

Give her all the attention. Get her closer to you. It won’t be long when she begins to reciprocate the interest if you do it correctly.

10. Drop her home

Believe me, when I say it, dropping her home is a GREAT turn on. After all, girls love men, not boys. It also gives you the golden chance both closer and into her personal zone. You shouldn’t be surprised when she calls you inside for a cup of coffee… and then we all know what follows!

Will this work?

DAMN YES. If only you push the right buttons and do it just accordingly.

I have been doing this since I was 18. This is the product of my blood-shed effort to understand the desires of a woman. Don’t worry, this won’t bring you down.

Make sure you go through each step chronologically, so as to understand their perspective better. Once you make them comfortable, gel with them better, it will be easier for you to make her horny.

Signs the Girl/Women is getting Horny

Having said about how to make her horny, it is important to know when she is horny. A lot of girls are good at hiding this feeling, but signals should be enough for smart men.

When a girl is turned on, it is clearly visible in the way she speaks, in the way she responds to you and her body language. You need to only pay close attention to understand when this happens and take a foot forward to execute the plan.

1. She breathes heavily

If you pull her by the hips or kiss on the lips and she breathes heavily, the long breaths are telling you what you always wanted to hear! Listen to it closely and keep doing what you are doing. She may start to close her eyes and feel your touch a little more intimately. These are some obvious signs that she is getting wet.

2. She clenches her lower lip between her teeth

Most women when feeling extremely turned on tend to clench their lower lip between the teeth. This just immediately reciprocates how she is craving to jump on you right away.

3. She doesn’t stop you when you touch her

Isn’t it obvious? If she doesn’t want you, she will not allow you to touch her, but if she does, she wants it. I know I have already mentioned this above but (Pay close attention to how she responds to your touch.)

4. Pulls you closer

Imagine you kiss her on the lips and she pulls you closer. What do you guess? Of course, she is getting turned on. There are many other ways that you can figure out whether she is horny. If she whispers sweet moans in your ears or smiles a little, these could be some incredible signs so as to be sure that she is getting turned on.

5. She is wet down there

Finally, in the last step, if you glide your fingers inside her vagina only to find her wet, you know she is ready for you. This is the ultimate sign that she wants you badly. Don’t disappoint her at this point.

How to take her home with you?

Taking a girl home with you might seem to be impossible or very difficult until you execute at least 5 stages of making her horny out of the 7 I have mentioned above. So don’t even try to ask her out, until you complete those steps properly.

Once you have completed all the steps except for the seventh, you can directly whisper softly in her ears by saying you want to take her home with you.

Let’s get out of this noisy place’ or a few other romantic sentences can do the needful. If she says yes, take her home.

The Final Lesson.

To make a girl wet is more of art than a learned chapter, and art can’t be taught word by word – so while I have tried my best to figure out from my own experience, remember when you are playing the game – there’s no better judge than you about which trick would help you win!

With this, your training session with me on ‘how to make a girl horny’ arrives at its end. Don’t forget to read each of the steps vividly so as to become a pro at making her wet.

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