Dating a Porn Star: Pros, Cons and Relationship Advice
by John Santana
Almost everyone has watched porn at some point in their life. Beautiful people on screen, performing sexual acts for the world to see. And for a handsome reward.
There is nothing wrong with being a porn star. In fact, millions of viewers and fans all over the world prove that porn stars are highly valued. Even if people don’t want to talk about it, most know a thing or two about porn and the people starring in it.
But what if you start dating someone in the porn business? Suddenly there are a lot more things to think about. There are definitely some sexy pros, but there are downsides too. A Lot depends on you and how comfortable and resilient you are in the relationship and in yourself.
Remember, doing porn is just a job. At the end of the day, the people you see on screen are looking for love and a private life just like anyone else. And they might find that with you!
What should you keep in mind if you start seeing a porn star? Quite a lot, actually. Here’s the good, the bad, and the important to remember when you are becoming close and personal with someone who intimately performs on screen.
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The Pros and Cons of Dating a Pornstar
Pros
From looking great on your arm, to being financially independent (aka loaded), to being AMAZING in bed, dating a porn star can be a lot of fun and downright smoking hot.
They Look Great
Porn stars are paid to look really, really good and your new partner will definitely fit the bill there. He or she will have a toned body that will make every other female and male jealous.
Because there are as many people involved in the adult film industry as there are pornographic genres, you’ll have no trouble finding one that appeals to you. One thing is certain: your porn star boyfriend or girlfriend will be attractive in or out of clothing.
They Know A Lot About Sex
Your new porn star lover or girlfriend can probably teach you a thing or two…or three, four, or five when it comes to sex. They’ll undoubtedly teach you and your body a lot about getting the best pleasure in bed.
Aside from that, unlike some other individuals who fidget and fumble around, your boyfriend or girlfriend will be much more secure with their physique, ensuring that you always have a good time.
They Have Confidence
A boyfriend or girlfriend who works in porn is probably quite outgoing and confident too. Let’s be honest, porn stars are usually fairly comfortable in their skin and with who they are. That attitude will carry over into their personal lives too. That means that you will be dating someone who is outgoing, friendly, and social.
They will be able to carry a conversation and walk around the world with pride and belief in themselves. This will make your relationship so much better. You will be able to talk frankly with your partner about nearly anything and will be assured that you’re dating someone who knows what they want, who they are, and how to express that.
They are Healthy and Clean
Ok, it sounds counterintuitive, but one of the biggest benefits of dating a porn star is that you know you are seeing someone who has a clean bill of health. Simply put, even though they have a lot of sex you don’t have to be worried about a sexually-transmitted disease.
All adult industry performers are to be tested for STDs on a routine basis. So you don’t have to worry about your bill of health off-cam as long as you know they’re using protection on-cam.
They’re Famous
Dating someone in the show business industry has a lot of benefits related to fame and celebrity. You get to partake in all the red carpet perks that a celebrity enjoys. Simply by association, you will be able to attend parties and events and glamorous things.
Dating a porn star will make you a part of the hidden, beautiful, ultra-sexy world of porn stars. You’ll be able to accompany them to events and movie premieres if he or she gets invited.
Related to that idea, another huge pro of dating a porn star is that people are going to want pictures and autographs. There is a good chance that you could be stopped while walking down the street with your loved one and fans will want to stop, chat, take pictures, get signatures, and fawn over your partner.
Everyone will be lusting after your date, but only you get to take them home. While that might be uncomfortable for some, it is a major perk for others. Dating a porn star really is like dating a celebrity. It just happens to be a celebrity who your parents might not know about.
They’re Interesting
Finally, another massive pro of dating a porn star is that he or she is going to be an interesting person. Porn performers are rarely boring.
There is little chance that your new boyfriend or girlfriend will be dull or uninteresting. Humdrum is just not something associated with a porn star. So you can be positive that seeing a porn celebrity means that you’ll be seeing someone who you like to hang out with.
Those pros are very important to keep in mind. But remember when you are weighing up your options about dating a porn star, there are also a slew of negative things to remember as well.
Cons
You Might Get Jealous
Jealousy is tough in any relationship. However, it could be much more present and much more challenging if you are in a relationship with a porn star. In fact, jealousy could be through the roof when you are seeing an adult performer.
The jealousy you will feel is understandable when you think about the job they have and how it could affect you. There may be occasions when you see your boyfriend or girlfriend with an exceptionally gorgeous companion on the set or on the internet, and you turn green with envy. When you’re dating a porn star, it’s inevitable that you’ll see them in bed with other people.
You must accept that he or she will be with other females and guys, performing personal things. You are going to have to work very, very hard on separating the personal and the private life. You need to remind yourself that your companion is just doing a job when they are in bed with another person. It is nothing personal, it is simply part of their work.
Strangers Will Know Them…Intimately
It may also be very hard to wrap your head around the fact that many people— most of them strangers— will see your partner in such a vulnerable, private way. The honest reality of the job is that it involves being nude and very intimate in ways that you normally don’t share with others.
Can you accept the fact that people you don’t know will see your boyfriend or girlfriend doing things that are supremely private? You will need to adjust to that – and that’s a hard task. Some people find it nearly impossible to not get angry and jealous when they think of their loved one being exposed to millions.
But if you can calm down, manage your feelings, and accept this, you will feel so much peace and will overcome perhaps the biggest hurdle in a relationship like this. You should expect lustful, lingering stares from women and men. People may also attempt to get with your partner because he or she is attractive and not afraid to show it.
Expect your boyfriend or girlfriend to be accosted by female fans or unwitting admirers, who may even make indecent offers. It is important to remember that some porn fans can be a bit aggressive, to put it gently. You might need to be prepared for people to say crude, rude, and frank things to your partner. Can you handle that? You’ll have to when you are dating a porn star.
It Can be Awkward with Family and Friends
How will you feel letting your new porn star partner meet your friends and family? This can be a huge con for many people. Introducing him or her to your family will be more difficult than introducing a lawyer, athlete, or an artist.
You must expect that some people may hold opposing ideas on the porn business and will thus evaluate you harshly for your choice of lover.
A family might not accept the fact that you’re seeing an adult performer. Even the most liberal and open-minded family members could have a few issues about it. That might cause some discomfort and awkward moments at family dinners.
Of course, your partner’s personality will shine through all of that and they will soon be getting along with anyone you are close to. However, there will be plenty of uneasy moments when you have to tell friends, family, and co-workers what your lover does.
You Can’t Have Regular Conversations
When you get home from a long day at work, you often want to tell your lover about what happened at your job. However, that might not be very comfortable when you’re dating a porn star.
Ask yourself: do you really want to know about their day? Do you really want to visualize what they were doing and who they were doing it with?
You might not be able to have the regular day-to-day chats that many couples do. Or, if you do, you might feel some anger and jealousy. Your home life will be a little altered when you are seeing a porn performer.
Advice
It is important to remember all the pros and cons listed above when you are seeing a porn star. It is also important to follow some advice. This advice could make your relationship so much easier so it is vital that you keep it close to your heart at all times.
Relax
The biggest piece of advice to remember is that you need to relax. You need to relax and always remember that your partner chose you. Try to not get jealous, try to not get paranoid either.
It is true that your boyfriend or girlfriend sleeps with many people and it’s also true that they have their choice of any sexual and romantic partner. However, they have picked you over all the other suitors.
Let go of Jealousy
You should walk through your relationship with confidence and assurance that you are the one your boyfriend or girlfriend wants. Whenever jealousy or anger arises, just remember that you have been selected and are wanted by your partner.
Be Supportive
You also need to remember that your partner will have a lot of pressures and negative emotions that not many others are forced to feel. Because of their profession, a porn star boyfriend or girlfriend will have some nasty things said about them because people look down at pornography.
They will also be critiqued because of how they look. People can be downright vicious to porn stars. But they are all human and they all have feelings. You will need to be a rock to your boyfriend or girlfriend, someone they can rely on.
Conclusion
Dating a porn star can be a very rewarding thing. You will feel true love and affection and care from someone who is engaging, fun and feisty with a great personality. You will have to remember certain things and weigh the pros and cons but there is no doubt that you should definitely date a porn star when they capture your heart.
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